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I took a year long hiatus from the internet pretty much to focus on things going on in my life, and after much soul searching, work, and a little bit of BS therapy, I will be testing life out as a single mom come January.
I don't know really what the hell I am doing or what my steps are. I am going to stay with a friend for 3 months and come up with a plan for the rest of my life, or at least for the rest of the year.
This is not a surprise to my husband- I am not sneaking out in the middle of the night leaving a note behind.
I am really scared. If I had a place of my own for my son and me to be, it would be different.
And what do I do about all the things we got as a couple? Like the china and silverware and pan set and knives and crystal and barware and the kitchenaid? and how about the tv's and the boat and furniture? not anything i can take with me now, but in 3 months, this will be an issue.
or how about our debt together?
i dont know how this works so of course it leads me to second guess all my decisions.
in September, when I thought that this would be my road, all I could see was a deep black abyss, and currently, thats where i am... in the abyss.
I need advise from anyone who has done this journey.
I don't know really what the hell I am doing or what my steps are. I am going to stay with a friend for 3 months and come up with a plan for the rest of my life, or at least for the rest of the year.
This is not a surprise to my husband- I am not sneaking out in the middle of the night leaving a note behind.
I am really scared. If I had a place of my own for my son and me to be, it would be different.
And what do I do about all the things we got as a couple? Like the china and silverware and pan set and knives and crystal and barware and the kitchenaid? and how about the tv's and the boat and furniture? not anything i can take with me now, but in 3 months, this will be an issue.
or how about our debt together?
i dont know how this works so of course it leads me to second guess all my decisions.
in September, when I thought that this would be my road, all I could see was a deep black abyss, and currently, thats where i am... in the abyss.
I need advise from anyone who has done this journey.