Well we've heard a lot of great suggestions already! But here's mine anyways...Thicker Fuller Hair Weightless Volumizing Hairspray. Holds really firm but doesn't give you the helmet head effect, never ever flakes or builds up, and yes--it's cheap! Look for the tall green can at any drugstore or Wal-mart, Target, etc.
Janelle, you seem to like a lot of the Big Sexy Hair products...I'm thinkin' I gotta try some. Are they salon only or can they be found in d/s? It seems like I've seen them in d/s but are they supposed to be there? You know like they always say on the back of the bottle "this product only guaranteed if sold in fine salons" or some such thing.