Brandi, I kind of feel the same way, I bought a dress one day in male mode at a small dress shop, got chatting to the sales assistant, told her about me. Felt really comfortable about the whole experence, she was most helpful. Anyway I went back there to the same store and a different sales lady was there that day, she was nice too, but something came up and she knew my christian name and mentioned the other SA had mentioned me. It made me feel uncomfortable knowing I was the subject of gossip. Enough gossip for her to know my name.