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regardless of whether you are doing something wrong (which I doubt) if he is unable to be open with you then this relationship is going nowhere.
Good communication and openness with each other is the corner stone for a good relationship. While I understand that not everyone is really good at communication, he needs to tell you if things are bothering him if it's to the point where he wants to break up.
I would ask him to be more open and make it clear that if he wasn't going to be truthful with me then it would be over.
I know that maybe this sounds kind of harsh, and people can change, but basically, as i get older, I'm less prepared to deal with people who can't even be bothered to be 100% honest with me... you know?
best of luck chicken!
Good communication and openness with each other is the corner stone for a good relationship. While I understand that not everyone is really good at communication, he needs to tell you if things are bothering him if it's to the point where he wants to break up.
I would ask him to be more open and make it clear that if he wasn't going to be truthful with me then it would be over.
I know that maybe this sounds kind of harsh, and people can change, but basically, as i get older, I'm less prepared to deal with people who can't even be bothered to be 100% honest with me... you know?
best of luck chicken!