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I've been friends with this guy for quite a few years now. Our friendship started out in a flirty nature, and has pretty much stayed that way for the time that we have been friends, though nothing has really ever come of it.
We've always kinda talked on and off about getting with each other, like him saying he'd like to kiss me, but nothing ever came of it. I kinda have the feeling it's just all in fun for him.
Anyways..to the point. In the last few months there has been some REALLY heavy flirting going on, lots of flirty/dirty text messages, a few naughty pictures here and there and lately everything has been very sexual, lots of talk of meeting up for a little fun. The thing is, I'm fallen for him. I adore him. I think about him 24/7, I get excited when he calls/texts me, I re read over his text messages, I love looking at his photos and when I see him I just melt. The problem is, I don't think he feels the same, Like I know he thinks I'm a sweet girl and I know he enjoys my company, but I think I'm just that to him a "sweet girl", someone he'd like to have a little fun with, but nothing more.
I just don't know how to approach the subject with him, if at all. I don't want to ruin the thing we have right now, god knows I want to hook up with him like he does with me..but I don't want to get any more attached to him than I already am..if he doesn't feel the same, ya know?
I just don't know how he feels? Sometimes I get the feeling that he would kinda like a little more, than other times it's like he's just happy with what is happening? We also live a little bit away from each other, he is down in Sydney, I'm up here in the mountains...really it's only an hour and half, 2 hours max away and our work schedules are opposite, but I would so be willing to make it work, I'm just scared that he'd use those excuses..
I've been balling my eyes out all afternoon over this, I dunno how to feel, I dunno if I should talk to him about it, or HOW to talk to him about it. If he doesn't feel the same then I at least want to remain friends with him, but all the flirting and everything would have to stop..but I'm almost scared to find out?
I haven't felt this way about anyone for ages..I'm head over heels for him, but I think Ive gotten too attached, too quickly. I feel like such an idiot.
I just don't know what to do/how to feel
We've always kinda talked on and off about getting with each other, like him saying he'd like to kiss me, but nothing ever came of it. I kinda have the feeling it's just all in fun for him.
Anyways..to the point. In the last few months there has been some REALLY heavy flirting going on, lots of flirty/dirty text messages, a few naughty pictures here and there and lately everything has been very sexual, lots of talk of meeting up for a little fun. The thing is, I'm fallen for him. I adore him. I think about him 24/7, I get excited when he calls/texts me, I re read over his text messages, I love looking at his photos and when I see him I just melt. The problem is, I don't think he feels the same, Like I know he thinks I'm a sweet girl and I know he enjoys my company, but I think I'm just that to him a "sweet girl", someone he'd like to have a little fun with, but nothing more.
I just don't know how to approach the subject with him, if at all. I don't want to ruin the thing we have right now, god knows I want to hook up with him like he does with me..but I don't want to get any more attached to him than I already am..if he doesn't feel the same, ya know?
I just don't know how he feels? Sometimes I get the feeling that he would kinda like a little more, than other times it's like he's just happy with what is happening? We also live a little bit away from each other, he is down in Sydney, I'm up here in the mountains...really it's only an hour and half, 2 hours max away and our work schedules are opposite, but I would so be willing to make it work, I'm just scared that he'd use those excuses..
I've been balling my eyes out all afternoon over this, I dunno how to feel, I dunno if I should talk to him about it, or HOW to talk to him about it. If he doesn't feel the same then I at least want to remain friends with him, but all the flirting and everything would have to stop..but I'm almost scared to find out?
I haven't felt this way about anyone for ages..I'm head over heels for him, but I think Ive gotten too attached, too quickly. I feel like such an idiot.
I just don't know what to do/how to feel
