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John's grandfather passed away last night, God rest his soul. He wasn't so much as in pain, but life really wasn't what it should've been for him. I know he's been in a nursing home for the last few years, and every time it seemed he was on the verge of passing away, he'd rebound to an extent. Well, this time he didn't. Thankfully, John went to see him one last time this past weekend.
John's taking the next three days off using bereavement time, and while I can't, I am taking off Thursday. Originally, I was taking it off to be home with the kids so he could go to the funeral (as much as I wanted to go and support him), but he didn't seem to keen on that idea, so I'm going... WITH THE KIDS!
Now, Cyera's old enough to understand about life and death, and knows death is part of life and happens to everyone and everything. However, Kylie's only 3 and doesn't know anything about it at all. I'm not too keen on taking them to the funeral, but John said to just bring them instead of getting a sitter for them.
So, my question for you is this: Have you ever been in this position? Having to take two young kids to a funeral, while you'd rather NOT put them in that "position." I'm just not happy about it, but now isn't the time to argue and throw a fit over it either. I just want to know what you all think of it. TIA!!!
John's taking the next three days off using bereavement time, and while I can't, I am taking off Thursday. Originally, I was taking it off to be home with the kids so he could go to the funeral (as much as I wanted to go and support him), but he didn't seem to keen on that idea, so I'm going... WITH THE KIDS!
Now, Cyera's old enough to understand about life and death, and knows death is part of life and happens to everyone and everything. However, Kylie's only 3 and doesn't know anything about it at all. I'm not too keen on taking them to the funeral, but John said to just bring them instead of getting a sitter for them.
So, my question for you is this: Have you ever been in this position? Having to take two young kids to a funeral, while you'd rather NOT put them in that "position." I'm just not happy about it, but now isn't the time to argue and throw a fit over it either. I just want to know what you all think of it. TIA!!!