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Ok, this is my situation. A couple nights ago as I was getting off work, I seen my boyfriends ex in the store. Instantly my face turned bright red and I wanted to turn around and punch her in the face but I don't want to lose my job. I was waiting for my friend to get off work so that we could go get food for her bf and my bf.
When we got done getting the food and taking it to them I told him I needed to talk to him. Well I asked him if there was someone that has come to Walmart that shouldnt have. He asked what I was talking about and I told him that I seen his ex walk by the area that he works and he said that her and her friend who I thought was my friend came in a while ago and talked to him.
I asked what they talked about and he said that his ex kept goin on about how awesome her bf is and blah blah. He said they only talked for about 2 mins and they left and she called him an f*ckin a**hole.
I guess what Im gettin at is that he never told me about it. I asked him why he didn't tell me and he said that he didn't because he didn't want any drama. I started crying but I couldn't help it. I feel like if he can hide that from me then no tellin what else he's hidin from me.
He told me that he doesn't have time to have another girlfriend nor does he have the money to spend on another girlfriend and I believe him on that. It just pisses me off because I still wouldn't know about it if I wouldn't have seen her. Now on the days that I'm off and he works even on the days that we both work, I sit there and question if she's there visiting him.
How would you ladies have handled the situation? I know he's not doing anything but he knows what he's done in the past and that's what makes me question things. I love him and I know he loves me but its just hard ya know. I'm sorry if this is long but I feel like I needed to get this out. If you couldn't tell we work together just in different departments.
When we got done getting the food and taking it to them I told him I needed to talk to him. Well I asked him if there was someone that has come to Walmart that shouldnt have. He asked what I was talking about and I told him that I seen his ex walk by the area that he works and he said that her and her friend who I thought was my friend came in a while ago and talked to him.
I asked what they talked about and he said that his ex kept goin on about how awesome her bf is and blah blah. He said they only talked for about 2 mins and they left and she called him an f*ckin a**hole.
I guess what Im gettin at is that he never told me about it. I asked him why he didn't tell me and he said that he didn't because he didn't want any drama. I started crying but I couldn't help it. I feel like if he can hide that from me then no tellin what else he's hidin from me.
He told me that he doesn't have time to have another girlfriend nor does he have the money to spend on another girlfriend and I believe him on that. It just pisses me off because I still wouldn't know about it if I wouldn't have seen her. Now on the days that I'm off and he works even on the days that we both work, I sit there and question if she's there visiting him.
How would you ladies have handled the situation? I know he's not doing anything but he knows what he's done in the past and that's what makes me question things. I love him and I know he loves me but its just hard ya know. I'm sorry if this is long but I feel like I needed to get this out. If you couldn't tell we work together just in different departments.