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pinksugar /img/forum/go_quote.gif In Europe (france and italy particularly) the attitude is that wine and other alcoholic beverages are a part of a meal, and children much younger than 21 or 18 drink with dinner. I have to say, I was brought up in the same way, when i was 10 or 11 I was allowed to drink watered down wine at Christmas or special functions - and I believe I have a healthy attitude toward drinking. I consider it part of a meal, and I think this is the best approach to introducing kids to alcohol - in a safe environment, with their parents, where they can learn to appreciate it as an addition to a nice meal, rather than something 'naughty' or 'bad' that one can only enjoy as an 'adult'. I second this, until not so long ago, a glass of wine would accompany lunch and dinner, plus the usual "aperitif" before those two meals.
My parents hate drinkers more than anything, my mom worked in my grandfather's café, and my dad is a cop, prone to be on the field after a car accident.
As a teenager i was allowed a small glass of wine, just a few mouthfuls to taste it. It is okay, in my family, to open a bottle of wine when friends are invited or on special occasions. We enjoy it, and we know the rarer the better. Even during those occasions, you will see me reach for water as i don't particularly like the taste of wine.
Coming from France, where the big difference lies in the number 18, i always found it strange if i was to visit London i would only get a lemonade.
If you're old enough to vote, imo you should also be old enough to be allowed to drink, actually to be allowed to make your choice, to drink or not to drink.
I notice lots of you talk about the youngsters' attitude, and how they will drink, like it's a fact you can't escape. Let's make a difference between those who will not drink (because i think they exist
), those who will have one glass, every once in a while, and stop at that, and those who will abuse it. There lies the danger. Let's not be so desperate about the college students.
Also, while we're talking about what the youngsters do and don't, don't forget it is an age we all like to the "test" the rules, and what's illegal tastes better. Lowering the drinking age limit would have that effect that legal at 18, some might think it's not worth it.