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[SIZE=10pt]I and my ex were together for 3 years. During the first 2yrs we were happy, loving and I knew it was forever. A few mths after we had been together for 2yrs. I became pregnant with our first and in the beginning it was scary. But excitement came and we both were ready for the baby to get here. I started noticing changes with him when I was around 3 mths prego. He wasn't showing interest in me or the baby and I started to wonder if it was another woman. My family came to me a few weeks later and told me that he was seeing another woman and they spotted him with her numerous times. I was devastated and stressed. He came back and asked for forgiveness and I took him back. He was sweet and beside me for awhile but I still noticed some changes in him. But for the sake of my unborn I didn't want to stress about it. As time passed he became detached, he wasn't into none of the pregnancy firsts like (baby's first kick, movement, heartbeat or gender.) When I went in labor he wasn't excited or showed interest. He didn't stay in the hospital with me after the baby was born. When my little girl was around 2 mths, he came to me and told he was with someone else. And he and the woman had been together most of my pregnancy. And he said that was who he wanted to be with. My little girl is 6mths now and it still hurts. He wasn't there for me during my pregnancy and left me and the baby hanging afterwards. To this day, he will not talk to me and does little for our baby girl. Part of me is still with him for some reason, even when I know I'm better off without him.[/SIZE][SIZE=10pt][/SIZE]