Perhaps you don't realize that you came across as accusing me of either A) starting/perpetrating some hoax for my own sick and twisted pleasure or B) being too uninformed to be aware of the reality of the situation. It is entirely possible that you simply had no idea how your words could be taken. However, as much as I try NOT to name-drop here, I have far too many friends in the public eye to post something like this without having verified it across multiple sources, AND not to post it until it is confirmed and announced by people MUCH higher on the food chain than I am. Even if I had been in the room when it happened (which I, of course, was not), it would have been a direct violation of my own ethics to post it BEFORE those people who would be regarded as official sources. However, since you do not know my personal moral code, I am entirely willing to accept that you were far too distraught to realize that you were, in effect, implying that I was a liar AND that you came across as entirely condescending. I shared this here because I was of the impression that there are other people here that are members of the drag community, whether as performers or as fans, thus making it not off-topic and possibly relevant to the interests of the members of this community.