I don't think it is fair for her to have told your mom, my best friend used to go to a planned parenthood, (she was 22) and the women at the receptionist desk knew her family and her mother the most, so she told her mom she saw her and that she went for a pregnancy test, her mom actually kicked her out, but it turned out she was only getting one so she could get on BC but she failed to mention that to her mom.. It isn't legal, it's just not her business if you wanted your mom to know you would have told her yourself..