I just caught myself mindlessly shopping online and had added two makeup items to my cart before I closed the tab on my browser. Mindless shopping! I'm trying to grapple with an insane workload and had to "turn off" my brain for a few minutes. Next time I'm overwhelmed I'll try hot tea or a walk around the office.
Yes, I'm doing that too a bit. I'm not buying, but I for some reason really like to keep my Sephora cart loaded up. I had to purchase my daily moisturizer with spf a few days ago (I just cut open and scooped out the last bits of the one I was using) and it's from Sephora, so when I ordered and my cart then said 0 items, I kind of freaked out a bit and loaded it up for the 'next time'. Why oh why? Good idea to try to walk around or make some tea to kind of soothe yourself. I'm also having some insane workloads right now. Eugh!!!
I ended up ordering two winter hats and two shirts for my kids who aren't twins but love to match. With all the promos and stacking I ended up spending $2.78. Not bad and I don't feel guilty since they needed hats.
Wow, awesome deals!!!!
Continuing the OT. It is crazy! They offered to rush it to me with 2 day shipping....for a $16 fee! No thank you! I live close to where they are sending from, so I'm hoping for more like 5 days. And it keeps me from spending, so it's not all bad.
Good point, I should maybe freeze my credit card in a block of ice like in that movie. Hahah. I think it was called Shopaholic or something like that. But I need to do what one person here did and delete my credit card from my accounts to make it harder to order things!
Yeah, I guess the best time to have your credit card number stolen is during a no-buy!
Hehehe, yes!
all, the hardwood floor, and even the hand towel holder. UGH. Thank goodness for Pinterest, because I was going to spend HOURS chipping that stuff off! Instead, I took my hair dryer, put it on low, and pointed it at the wall. As the wax softened, I wiped it off with a paper towel. SO EASY.
Then I went to the office to clean out my desk (got the floor cleaned/holiday stuff out Monday) and a bin of items, and found so. much. craft. stuff. No lie, I should not buy stickers til about 2063. At first I was mad at myself, because the piles of stuff represent so much money spent over the years, but I decided to see it as now I don't have to spend money in the *future* on stuff and I'll have plenty of things to use for keeping the kids entertained over the summer. (like 2000 Cars stickers.)
I'm now about 2/3 of the way through my goals of cleaning the office & bathrooms. And as every room in my house starts looking better, it's making me feel better. It's giving me the strength to resist buying makeup and beauty items when I decide I'd rather spend the money on a shoe rack for the coat closet, or a drawer unit to hold my craft stuff. And now, my only hope is that I'll be able to NOT become addicted to buying organizational stuff!
14 Days Down! 86 left to go! We got this!
I love what you said about not being too mad about yourself for having a stockpile of stuff. Sure in some areas of life it can be unhelpful (like with products that expire) but you're right- think about it like saving money in the future, as long as you know what you have on hand and remember to use it. Hahah @ the Cars stickers!!! Try using them as rewards when your boys do good, like brush their teeth without you having to tell them. When I was young, my Mom made me a calendar and if I practiced my violin 30 minutes a day, I'd get a sticker on that day. I liked trying to get a sticker every day so I wouldn't have an empty slot. Hahah, maybe I should do that for myself with this no-buy?
Well, I have had online shopping carts filled up four different times already and we're only two weeks in, but I have been able to empty them all. No rules have been broken. None of the shopping carts were big orders, and I didn't buy anything, but it makes me nervous that I have done this.
I went on to take my credit card number off the account on three out of the four websites to make it more difficult for myself. The fourth place I frequently buy things other than what I'm trying to avoid on my no-buy, so it will have to stay.
What is making this tolerable for me right now is having new empties. Having new empties has replaced having new pretties. Maybe that is not the best state of mind for the long term, but it is where I am at right now.
In positive news, I have accomplished or am on target with almost all of my day 11-20 goals.
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Good idea to take your credit card info off your most-shopped sites!!!
I can sympathize with you on loading up your cart and everything, even if you don't purchase. I have done this a bit, and at first was mad at myself as one of my rules was not to play 'cart roulette' and not to go on shopping sites. But you know what? Someone said something very smart- I think it was @tweakabelle - and that was not to be ignorant of temptation, because then you're not really resisting it, you just don't know about it. So I want to know about my temptations, track them, write them down, and actively resist them. I think it makes it harder, but makes your willpower stronger. Therefore, I don't chide myself too much for doing this, but seriously, going to Sephora every day is stupid, but I'm doing it ... why? I'm on a no-buy and don't need anything, but I still like checking it out and seeing what deals they have, even if I resist. I don't know... but I'm looking at it like I'm strengthening my willpower.
Well, I have found my winner amongst all the BB creams in my stash! From now on I will only repurchase Missha Perfect Cover #13. If it were non-scented it would be perfection itself, but the fragrance has never caused any reaction or skin irritation so that is a win. It beat out Dr Jart's Black Label and Premium, Skin79 the Oriental Gold Cream, and Smashbox. The Missha is the only one light enough for my NC15 skin, and it had a high SPF of 42.
The rest of my BB creams are a smidge too dark so I will use them on my forearms as my sunscreen and bonus freckle cover. They don't obliterate the freckles from view, but at least softens the appearance of them.
I realized that for the past year I have used all high-end mascara samples, so tomorrow I am opening a drugstore one from my stash, I don't want to get stuck on an all high-end mindset.
My high end palettes and lipsticks are all being used in rotation so they aren't being saved for a special occasion.
I've tried all my different foundations to get down to just one Holy Grail of each type I prefer, which means no more wasting money trying every new thing out there. Mine are Powder Foundation= MAC Studiofix Powder+Foundation NC15, BB Cream = MIssha Perfect Cover #13, and for stick foundation=
Flower Cosmetics Stick Foundation in #SF1. The stick can also double as a concealer for my rosesea, but not for underye area.
Progress, slow, but it is still progress.
Hey lady! I think it's awesome that you're going through all your foundations and BB creams to find your HG in those categories. I spent way too much money this and last year trying to find the perfect things for me. So I ended up with lots of stuff I don't like that much. I'm trying my hardest to say, "Well, this one is good, and although it's not my ideal, it works so I should keep with it." Instead of spending more $ searching for the perfect unicorn that may not exist.
Also, so smart to use your BB cream that you don't like on your arms!!! It's probably really good for the backs of your hands too- as they get lots of sun exposure. I'm going to try this with some CC cream samples I have that aren't really my shade.
Checking in for day 13 and 14 today, and I need to be in bed in 8 minutes so I'm trying to write this up quickly. No purchases, I've been sticking to my Monday Club plans, though even with the greasy moisturizer my mineral foundation isn't the same as when I put it on during the summer, but it's better. I admittedly kind of like just having one face for the entire week, I did some tweaking from my initial plans, but I found a very neutral looking face that I like the look of and I can put it on lickity split because I know what I'm doing.
There have been some temptations, a lot of indie companies are reopening and having sales which is very tempting, but so far so good.
This is my last day of having to go to bed at 8:30 for science though, so I'm glad. I feel like once the hours of sleep I need to get goes down my life will feel a little more manageable.
Hey there!!!
I'm glad things are going good for you! Sorry to hear you've had some temptations, but proud of you for remaining strong!
Also, how is the long sleep hours thing going besides the inconvenience of having to go to bed super early? Are you feeling any differently? Looking any different? I can't wait to hear from you!
I tossed some hotel type sample shampoo today. I don't know why I keep these. I can never resist free! They are always so horrible, I need to break the habit. I'm also using a new shadow every day that I wear make-up so I can get an idea of my favorites. I have so many I've never tried.
This is me. I always take the hotel toiletries home with me, but never, or extremely rarely use them. I don't know why I keep them either, but the whole free thing gets me every time. It could be a free sample of itch cream, I don't care, I'll take it! I guess the good thing about the hotel toilitries is if unused you can donate.... my Church went to Mexico when I was in high school and we gave out tons of little hotel toiletries on our mission trip.
Day 14 check in! Two weeks in yay! Today was a hectic day running, running, running so no time to think about shopping!
I got in my BB today and the CS box. I think I will be good for a few days lol.
Another night at spinning. I think I am going to buy some shoes for the class. I need to do some research though.
I cannot believe January is half over? Wasn't it just Christmas?!! Where does time go?!
I have also been pretty busy, so I hope that doesn't skew my impression of how this no-buy is going for me. I tend to feel like time goes slower in the summer (maybe because the hours of daylight are longer and it's miserably hot) so only time will tell how I deal with that when the second no-buy comes around (if you guys reading this don't know, check out the pinned thread- @
@Kristine Walker and @ are talking about a summer 100-day no-buy to start in June through September). Also, I would love to hear how the spinning class is going. How often do you do it?
I agree about the time. EUGH!!!! Time is so slippery!