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The guy I wrote about in a few other threads, offically (I think) broke up with me today. We had plans to get together tonight, I sent him a msg to confirm and he called and told me he accidentally double booked himself tonight and if other plans came along, that I should take them.
That comment pissed me off and we got into it...I told him that I moved my whole weekend around to hang out with him tonight and he told me he never asked me to do that and that was all my doing. He told me not to blame it on him and so on. I asked if he wanted to end things becuase I felt like he never wanted to see me and he said we had been fighting a lot the last 4 weeks...I asked him again if he wanted to end things and he said he 'honestly doesnt know what he wants'. He also said he didnt want to string me along if he wasnt 100% (uhh too late for that).
He said he needed time to think about things and that we have been arguing so much lately that he doesnt know if we can make it work. He told me he would let me know as soon as he thought about it, it might not be today, tomorow but ASAP. I said a face to face might be helpful and asked if he was available to meet in the afternoon sunday...he said he MAY be available and will let me know tomorow morning.
What the hell am I supposed to do with this!? I like him....I dont want it to end...is it stupid that Im trying to hold onto something that it seems like he doesnt even care about?
That comment pissed me off and we got into it...I told him that I moved my whole weekend around to hang out with him tonight and he told me he never asked me to do that and that was all my doing. He told me not to blame it on him and so on. I asked if he wanted to end things becuase I felt like he never wanted to see me and he said we had been fighting a lot the last 4 weeks...I asked him again if he wanted to end things and he said he 'honestly doesnt know what he wants'. He also said he didnt want to string me along if he wasnt 100% (uhh too late for that).
He said he needed time to think about things and that we have been arguing so much lately that he doesnt know if we can make it work. He told me he would let me know as soon as he thought about it, it might not be today, tomorow but ASAP. I said a face to face might be helpful and asked if he was available to meet in the afternoon sunday...he said he MAY be available and will let me know tomorow morning.
What the hell am I supposed to do with this!? I like him....I dont want it to end...is it stupid that Im trying to hold onto something that it seems like he doesnt even care about?