I am a go-and-get-it girl too!!! it's the aquarius in us... that we don't have the issue for thinking its beneath us.
examples of my asking guys out-
when i was a senior i asked my date to our senior ball. i actually was asked twice but said no... because i was a big snot in HS and wanted someone who would look perfect next to my dress, which was red. so instead i said no to the others and asked a junior... and we had a blast.
in my early 20's I was in line and this guy behind me was just GORGEOUS... i mean, it was too much for me to just let him stand there by himself. so i told him he had amazing posture for a guy just standing in line waiting for a coffee. he thought that line was brill, better than eyes or smile or whatever. anyhoo, we went out for a bit.
in my later 20's, i flirted like a mad drunk girl with my friend's roommate, even though i knew he was in the middle of girl issues, and now he's my husband.
i am pretty sure that no one i've ever asked out ever got the impression that i was desperate or a floozy or easy. i am pretty sure they knew right away that i was just the type of girl who was pro-active with her life.
Originally Posted by BeneBaby /img/forum/go_quote.gif Every guy I've ever been with, I asked them out. I am the type of Girl who goes after what I want. I would just say..."Let's go out sometime, here's my number...Call Me"
I think the idea of waiting for a guy to ask is old-fashioned. If you like someone and want to pursue a relationship, why not show iniative and make a move??? I never understood the whole..."Guys are supposed to ask" thing. Imagine all the pressure Guys feel!! Not to mention the intimidation of asking out a pretty girl and the fear of rejection. I am a no games type!!
