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Well Kee, think of it this way: The more time, energy and focus you put into having the life you want, the less apt you'll be to have your mother ruin it for you, her behavior simply will not be given the attention it needs to fester.
Don't spend you time worrying about her and the antics she brings, she actually should be flattered that you're thinking of her so much. Try and re-focus that energy on you, your husband and making your life together fulfilling. Then whatever the latest drama she brings will naturally fall to the wayside. It works, I do it, and I'm happier that way.
And of course, moving over a thousand miles away doesn't hurt either.
Don't spend you time worrying about her and the antics she brings, she actually should be flattered that you're thinking of her so much. Try and re-focus that energy on you, your husband and making your life together fulfilling. Then whatever the latest drama she brings will naturally fall to the wayside. It works, I do it, and I'm happier that way.
And of course, moving over a thousand miles away doesn't hurt either.