Are you prejudging what others will do/think/feel/say? Yeah, I know a lot of people will stare/gossip etc. But to put that on specific people - are you prejudging them? You can't just assume someone's an a$$ and skip the part where they prove it.
It's like someone saying "You won't like me because I'm XYZ...No, I don't like you b/c you (take your pick) prejudged me/have a chip on your shoulder.
I don't know you, just trying to help - there's my 2 cents worth. I hope it all works out.