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Hey lovely people!
Ok, so I am really in need of a good place to rant about how crappy I have been feeling lately. I'm a usually bubbly person and everything, but honestly when I get alone, I really do often end up feeling sorry for myself.
The problem is this: I have a really crap history with guys, I've had a few crushes lately that ended with me just being confused, and I'm 24 and...still a virgin. I don't ever broadcast that last little bit, just because it honestly only makes me feel worse about myself. I try to think that I am a nice person who is *somewhat* good looking and worth dating, but honestly I don't even have one guy interested in me, let alone a few. I'm not trying to have a pity party and I know that there has to be situations out there like mine, but I just wonder how it's come to this. I have quite a few friends (not TONS of guy friends though) but I'm not a big party-er for my age. And just by the guys my age that I do know go out and party lots, I really doubt I could find anyone that would be what I'm hoping for at a bar.
The last guy I was getting to know more seemed as though he was interested and we even spent hours talking on the phone nightly since he moved away and we couldn't hangout together. He was an old high school friend. Even my best friend thought we were going somewhere. Anyways, after months of nothing much happening, we just kinda stopped talking. Now I guess he's dating this girl he met in a bar randomly and after 3 weeks he is totally infatuated with her. Do you kinda see where my insecurities come from now? lol
I don't expect guys to be perfect and I know I'm not either, but I guess I'm just getting sick of my friends telling me someone will come along when it's time. I think at this point I'm just confused that it could be something I'm doing that keep any guys from getting close, or if it's just how things are meant to go for me. Anyways, I think this boo-hoo fest has gone on here for long enough but any help advice or anything I would love. And thank you for letting me come on here and vent to all you kind and caring people! <3
Ok, so I am really in need of a good place to rant about how crappy I have been feeling lately. I'm a usually bubbly person and everything, but honestly when I get alone, I really do often end up feeling sorry for myself.
The problem is this: I have a really crap history with guys, I've had a few crushes lately that ended with me just being confused, and I'm 24 and...still a virgin. I don't ever broadcast that last little bit, just because it honestly only makes me feel worse about myself. I try to think that I am a nice person who is *somewhat* good looking and worth dating, but honestly I don't even have one guy interested in me, let alone a few. I'm not trying to have a pity party and I know that there has to be situations out there like mine, but I just wonder how it's come to this. I have quite a few friends (not TONS of guy friends though) but I'm not a big party-er for my age. And just by the guys my age that I do know go out and party lots, I really doubt I could find anyone that would be what I'm hoping for at a bar.
The last guy I was getting to know more seemed as though he was interested and we even spent hours talking on the phone nightly since he moved away and we couldn't hangout together. He was an old high school friend. Even my best friend thought we were going somewhere. Anyways, after months of nothing much happening, we just kinda stopped talking. Now I guess he's dating this girl he met in a bar randomly and after 3 weeks he is totally infatuated with her. Do you kinda see where my insecurities come from now? lol
I don't expect guys to be perfect and I know I'm not either, but I guess I'm just getting sick of my friends telling me someone will come along when it's time. I think at this point I'm just confused that it could be something I'm doing that keep any guys from getting close, or if it's just how things are meant to go for me. Anyways, I think this boo-hoo fest has gone on here for long enough but any help advice or anything I would love. And thank you for letting me come on here and vent to all you kind and caring people! <3