Originally Posted by donnamaryuk If i can recall that far back, i think i was seeing a lot of bands, running around after a toddler and working in a bakery. How bout you ? Hmmmmm, trying to conjure up a flashback here. Well, no doubt busy with my kids who were 7 and 14 at the time, thats around the time my Mom started to have a lot of health problems so I was taking care of her too. We had just moved into our house like the year before so I was trying to get the yard landscaped, did most of it myself (my aching back). I had a part time job but gave it up has Mom was just having one medical problem after another, she went through 2 carotid artery surgeries, breast cancer, triple bypass and numerous angioplasty procedures all within a few years.