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I need your help on a friendship issue cause I don't know what to do. I have a close friend (Melissa) and we have been friends for about 5 yrs. I consider her to be my closest friend. We have a lot in common, we like to party and share some of the same issues in life (both of us have non-existant relationships with our fathers, trust issues with guys). Anyways, lately, she has been hanging out with another acquaintance of ours (Cindy) who I do not like. I work with Cindy and she is just one of those people who think her $hit don't stink. She is not the type of person who respects herself and she always talks mad $hit about other people. She is a very negative person too and that is just someone who I do not want to be associated with. My friend Melissa has been hanging out with Cindy a lot because they like to go out to bars and because I was going to school, I wasn't able to go out with them during the weeknights. When Melissa calls me to go out with them, I usually give her a BS excuse as to why I can't go cause I dont want to deal with Cindy. I hate that! She and I used to hang out a lot and now I feel like we aren't as close as before. I don't want to tell her my dislike for Cindy because I don't want her to think that I want her to choose between the two of us. But, I miss her and our friendship. I don't have a lot of friends so that is why this hurts. I feel like I am losing one of my closest friendships and I don't know what to do.
If you read this far, thanks and any suggestions are greatly appreciated.
If you read this far, thanks and any suggestions are greatly appreciated.