Originally Posted by bella1342 /img/forum/go_quote.gif We said it around six months. I went to Italy for a month, and while it was the most amazing experience ever, I just missed him too much. He missed me like crazy too. We both said it when I got home from my trip. Now it's almost four years later, and we're very much in love. awww! thats so sweet. i think 6 months is an acceptable amout of time. but as we've said it does vary from relationship to relationship and as rosie pointed out it soo depends on how much time you spend together! me and my bf spend 3 or 4 days out of the week together, sometimes just for lunch, sometimes just for like a walk or something. but when we were first dating we were only meeting up about once a week or so. so when i say we've been together for 3 months its more like we've not actually spent those full three months together.. if you know what i mean.lol!
Originally Posted by Dragonfly /img/forum/go_quote.gif Knowing when you feel love, can be confusing.A lot of people believe that infatuation is love. And with others, they believe sexual attraction is love.
What worked for me was waiting until he said he was in love with me first.
And then I told him I wasn't sure, but I'd let him know when I was.
that is so true. it is hard to tell sometimes if you really obsess about it. i think it's best not to concentrate on it too hard and just let it flow. sexual attraction is very different from love, but i think sex does play a key part in it.