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Killah Kitty /img/forum/go_quote.gif My first serious relationship he started telling me he loved me about a month in, and I said the same to him. It didn't really kick in until about a year later though lol. We ended up being together for almost 3 years though.
My current BF first said it over the phone to me when he was drunk, he lost his watch and I helped him find it, and then he just blurted it out. We were together about a month too, but we were seeing each other for two months before that. I didnt say it back to him that night... but about a week later we were laying in bed eating some take out and he looked at me all serious and said it to me again. I said it back to him.
I think its always easier if the guy says it first... or maybe Im just a chicken lol
I dont think its too soon... I think you just feel it. We see each other usually every day and we talk on the phone for hours. The first night we actually went out together there was just this intense feeling between us... its been that way since that very first date and it still is everyday. So we've only really been together for 3 months now officially... but I think its safe to say we have really fallen for each other.
I wonder if other people think like me? Sorry to ramble lol but I wonder... when you fall in love... do you just know? I mean do you just feel it? I know its nearly impossible to define love so does that mean that you just feel it when it happens? I just wonder because that has always been the case for me lol.
i think you're right, you do just feel it. problem is with me, and probably many others, is such a big part of love is trust, and it takes me so long to trust boys when so many of them have turned out to be not very nice.
a couple of weeks ago my boyfriend actually said he thought he was falling in love with me, which was sweet. i'm glad he said it because i'm falling in love too, i'm not completely there yet but it's coming. i think when it does come out it will be at a completely random moment rather than in bed or anything. i think the words will just fall out of my mouth.