Over Easter weekend I had a bad, bad eye infection in combination with a make-up allergy. So I couldn't wear make-up. I was visiting my mother for Easter. The infection and allergic reaction had gotten better, enough so that it just looked like I'd been crying alot. Of course, I had to go to church, Easter and all. I begged my mother not to make me talk with her church group or go out to eat with her church group. I just didn't want to hear their remarks - "Oh, honey, what's wrong? Have you been crying." or "you look tired." She completely ignored my request and not only did she make me go out to eat and talk with her church friends. She had the who church of 200 or so pray for me. Did she mention that I had an eye infection?....Nope, she just said "Please pray for my daughter, that she gets better." Great, now the whole church thinks I've been crying for days. And that's the remarks I recieved - "I hope things go better for you." Me: "It's just an eye infection." Them: "Oh, I thought you had been crying." Grrrr.