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I have posted in the past about my parents etc. Anyways I came home today from an appointment and my dad was in my backyard puttering around. He had walked over from where my mom and him live. I asked him what he was doing. He said that he had talked to my aunt (mom's sister) and was quite angry that she bought me a new washing machine for Christmas and that I didn't deserve it. I asked him to leave and he said no. I looked at him for a few seconds and he started to walk out of the yard, through the gate. I proceeded to unlock my back door and he came back in through the gate, grabbed me by my arm (same arm where I had surgery), squeezed it really hard, and shoved me to the ground, my bad elbow was hit into the ground (cement patio). Needless to say my arm is hurting badly. I got up and said if he touches me again or comes on my property I will call the police. He mumbled something, called me a name, said I am a useless.
I could smell alcohol on his breath. The thing is my dad has never had a drinking problem all his life. I have noticed the older he gets the more cranky, irritable he is.
My dad hates the world. He crabs and complains about everything. Around his buddies, he was a different person, as in he was more jovial. I know growing up he hated his mother because apparently his only other sibling, his sister, got better treatment.
I mentioned many months ago that my parents told me that I was never wanted as in they didn't want a second child. I have an older brother who lives elsewhere. So with the way they treated me growing up and during/after my abusive relationship I decided to stay away from them, no contact. I don't phone them at all. I may sound horrible and it is hard for me to dislike my parents but after what they have said and done I want nothing to do with them.
I thought about getting a restraining order.
Now my stupid arm is hurting, bruised, little and ring finger are numb. Not good. I see the surgeon in a few weeks for a follow up hopefully all these symptoms will be gone by then.
I could smell alcohol on his breath. The thing is my dad has never had a drinking problem all his life. I have noticed the older he gets the more cranky, irritable he is.
My dad hates the world. He crabs and complains about everything. Around his buddies, he was a different person, as in he was more jovial. I know growing up he hated his mother because apparently his only other sibling, his sister, got better treatment.
I mentioned many months ago that my parents told me that I was never wanted as in they didn't want a second child. I have an older brother who lives elsewhere. So with the way they treated me growing up and during/after my abusive relationship I decided to stay away from them, no contact. I don't phone them at all. I may sound horrible and it is hard for me to dislike my parents but after what they have said and done I want nothing to do with them.
I thought about getting a restraining order.
Now my stupid arm is hurting, bruised, little and ring finger are numb. Not good. I see the surgeon in a few weeks for a follow up hopefully all these symptoms will be gone by then.