about the whole gay marriage thing, i am not really for sure about what i think about that, i am on the fence about it still and i can see both points of views. alot of you made some really good points about it, you all have really good views on this very controversal topic and i just want to applaud everyone for handling it so professionally and not killing and cussing eachother out for not believeing in ones views, eveyone of us is different and very unique in our convictions and that is what makes the world not so boring, god created everyone and god is the only one who is perfect. yea some straight couples this day and age dont take marriage as sacred as it is and just jump and get married w/o really realizing all of the hard work and committment to that one person and all that it takes. i get so pissed off when i hear that someone just got engaged or married after like 2 months of courtship for example, it is really obsured. i guess that the real argument should be, what do you exactly define marriage as? a sacrament between two people who are committed to eachother and love and honor eachother and are willing to share the rest of their lives with that other person? thats my veiw on marriage. you know, if you think about it, way back then, races werent allowed to mix (especially blacks and whites). that was just as a taboo as gay couples. the children concieved were scorned, but if you think about it the children are also kinda scorned too for having two moms or two dads. every family is different. everbodys veiws are different. that is just the way that this world works.