:icon_love I knew I would marry my husband the moment I met him. I guess you could say it was love at first sight. I had gone through a lot of turbulent long-term relationships, and finally met the right guy. We've been inseparable since the day we met, moved in officially after 3 months together and got married 3 years later. It was great living together and figuring out how to balance all aspects of our relationship. Three months after we got married, I became pregnant with our son. I was 29 when we married, 30 when I got pregnant. Exactly four years later, I gave birth to our daughter. For me, for us, everything fell into place perfectly. I wouldn't change a thing. Maybe one more baby, if we're lucky, in a few years.
Getting married in my late twenties, and preggy at 30 was good timing for me. I, personally, in my early twenties, was not mature or responsible enough to take care of anyone else. I was very wild and partied alot (looking back, I scare myself). I became more balanced and really figured out who I was, in my mid-twenties. I was so ready to settle down and start a family. I am so happy where I am in my life right now. Everyone's paths are different, and everyone's timing is different. I say, never settle and never do anything just to make others happy. Also, like Gwen mentioned, thanks to medical science, women are having healthy babies in their 40's - with or without signicant others. My cousin's pregnant for the first time with twin boys, and she's 41.