Originally Posted by CandyApple /img/forum/go_quote.gif What?? I believe you should treat your kids all the same. Her comments were ludicrous!!What kind of mother says this? "I felt so much more for Madd, Zahara and Pax because they were survivors. Shiloh seemed so privileged from the moment she was born. But I’m conscious that I have to make sure I don’t ignore her needs, just because I think the others are more vulnerable.â€
the way you TREAT your kids and the way you LOVE your kids are completely different things. Go re-read the posts about this and you will see even other moms will attest to this fact.
Each child is different and should be treated different, depending on their needs, age, personality, etc. You can not expect one treatment of one child to work for another. That will cause issues. Trust me, it was like that for my family - and I am sure it is like that for others, with multiple kids or with siblings.