Well.. I just had to put my 5 cents in too
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I don't think that any outfit gives someone the right to rape someone, and it's DEFINATELY not an excuse, EVER. It sickens me that people can think this - even if she said she wanted it but then when the time came decided that she didn't want to afterall - it's STILL rape. It's the man's job to be sure, in order to protect himself.
The thing is, I'm not sure if this was the case, but in Australia, you have concerts that are 18+ (18 is the age you can drink, 16 for sex) and all ages concerts.
If this was an all age concert (and if it wasn't, how did she get in without ID??) Then he should have acted more appropriately, because there would obviously be children there. I don't think 'concerts' are only for adults, but I do think they should be modified if children will be there. He should have known better.
I don't think he should have treated anyone this way, regardless of whether she knew what she was doing - and she obviously did.
They are both to blame. And, I don't think her parents can be held accountable for her actions - they didn't force her to get up there, did they? People have to take responsibility for their own actions.