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Went and got my year planner and some pretty pens from Wal-mart. I'm ready to take on 2015
Thank you! I have been inspired reading all your ladies goals and plans but I was too big of a weenie to join. Then I read in a different thread a story about losing things on your closet floor. I then realized that I have lost a whole box of indies. Just gone poof. I then realized I need to stop being an ostrich and burying my head in the sand and realize I like makeup. But i have too much. I also have the power to change my relationship with it! So here I am!@@lovepink Happy to have you! I can't wait till round seven of CS, my Calibama ladies are in for so many treats!
please everybody keep track of your empties because I get so weirdly proud of every reading the official used it up thread! Indulge my obsession!Goals
- Put a dent in my sample stockpile. Try to use up 50 items including foils (not sure if that's a good number but I can revise). I'm thinking about keeping track of my empties.
Good job! Success feels good!I went to Target last night and did not even stop in the beauty section.
I did buy disposable razors because I can't go for three months without shaving under my arms and the one I was using was really dull. But I only bought them after emptying my entire linen closet looking for extras (sadly, I did not have any extras). So I don't count that as a fail. And the only other thing I bought was spray to clean cat barf out of my carpet. I got out for under $20 (which is, in itself, amazing). So, day 3 and I'm still good.
Ok so I haven't read this entire thread, because I can't right now...I was skimming (looking to see who's committed) and I saw the calendar on this post...and started crying. The calendar hit me VERY HARD. My first grandson is due April 7th. They live in NC and I will be flying out there when he is almost here/here/immediately after he is here depending on how much notice I get.I finally have my rules ready!!! Be warned, this is going to be super duper long!
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Rules: No-Buy for Personal Items from January 1st until April 10th (or during Sephora’s Chic Week if it happens before the 100th day (expected to be sometime in early April)).
Includes: Anything I’d get personal use out of that isn’t a necessity.
No overspending in other categories to compensate. Basically, spending only what I need in this 100-day challenge, nothing to make me feel better, nothing I want.Makeup, skincare, haircare, nail polish, self-pampering items, body care items, jewelry, treats or snacks (excluding ones I bake myself), clothing, shoes (excluding running shoes), beauty tools such as brushes, clippers, and hair ties, music, movies, DVDs, toys, stationery, books, coffee or tea, beer/wine, dinner out, or anything I would get personal use out of, etc.
Just to be clear ( I know I’ll try to trick myself later) this does not include the following categories: gas, healthcare- prescriptions and appointments only-, vet costs, bills, or food. The miscellaneous category in your budget is the tricky one, the devil is in the details. Same for food- junk food is going to be part of this.
More detailed rules:
- Do not, under any circumstances, visit the following: Sephora.com, Ulta.com,
Beauty.com, Dermstore.com, Makeuptalkforums: Shopping sub-forum, or other forums or blogs. Not even to play ‘cart roulette’. Avoid ‘hauls’ and product reviews.
- Participate at least weekly in the following threads: 100-day No-buy thread,
Monthly no-buy support threads, Pan that palette 2015, the Monday club, Taking Inventory, 33 Days of Decluttering, Official Used it Up thread, I hit pan on thread, and start a ‘weekly look’ thread.
- Make a list when shopping, and buy only what is on the list. Also set a goal for how much I’m willing to spend.
If have a set goal, make sure to buy giftcards and don’t go over the amount (Kroger, Walmart, Target, Gas stations, Sephora, Ulta, TJMaxx, Gap, etc.) Use ‘giftcard granny’ for deals on giftcards.
Only exceptions allowed:
- May purchase up to a $25 Sephora item in January (my birthday month), using $17 store credit.
Plan to get the Anastasia brow brush #12- May buy movie ticket or restaurant meal only if going with friends. No snacks, appetizers, dessert, or drinks. Water only.
- May buy gifts for friends/family for birthdays and other occasions.
- May make 2 small (< $25) purchases on organizational items.
- May buy replacement necessities only: skincare, hair conditioner, concealer, hand cream.
(I expect to need to replace: cleanser, toner, exfoliant, vitamin c treatment, retinol treatment, acne treatment, spf, moisturizer, facial mist, hair conditioner, hand cream, cuticle oil, toothpaste, cotton face pads, feminine pads, body moisturizer, scented candle for bedroom, cold sore treatment, lip balm, sunglasses, eyeglasses with updated prescription, running shoes.)
Obtaining new products:
- This can only be done through the following venues: swaps, trades, free samples,
That’s it. No buying anything. Hence, the no buy.dumpster diving, garage sales or thrift stores, profit from selling any belongings.
- I can obtain new products by purchasing, but only through selling my other unwanted ones. Can sell on ebay, blog sale, and makeuptalk forum. Any $ I make from those sales are fair game.
- If purchase online for necessity replacements, make sure to use Ebates or Mr. Rebates, plus search for coupons on RetailMeNot.
- Regularly request samples from companies, especially in the search for HG spf, eye cream, and hand cream. This will hopefully keep my need for spending and getting new packages down.
Positive reinforcement:
- Every 10 days can have a mini celebration for getting 1/10 th of the way closer! Not sure what this will be yet. Not making a purchase, but maybe something… like, well, not sure! Any ideas?
Other parts of my game plan:
- Use up products: Nail polish, perfume, eyeshadow. Create go-to looks. Play with your makeup so you are familiar with it and know how to make yourself look good.
- Get an accountability partner and check in several times a week through PM. Requesting ‘tough love’ partner. Anyone in?
- Weekly spa day on Sundays to destress, use up products, and pamper myself.
- Get obsessed about saving money again:
Go to MAGFED bank party in January, read GetRichSlowy, TheSimpleDollar, and The Non-consumer Advocate blogs. Keep up with Mint.com and my online bank account. Also regularly check on credit score and on investments. Use Mint.com to track spending and use your spreadsheet budget. Also, consider doing envelope method again, this time paying more attention.
Also focus on other goals: reading, quitting bad habits, writing,visiting, DIYing, excercising, enjoying life!- Give to a charity monthly-
can pick a new charity every month. Start out small, with $10 a month. Keep up with Kiva again!
Things to keep in mind:
- Don’t break your rules- don’t trick yourself into having a exception that you ‘forgot’ to add into the rules.
- [SIZE=11pt]Remember: That purchasing __________ (fill in the blank with whatever you’re lusting after) will not change your life. It won’t even make your day better. It won’t up your game. It won’t elevate your beauty routine. It won’t make you more of a lady, more put-together, more yourself, more beautiful. It’s just another thing out of the countless things you’ve tried. You’re still the same you. [/SIZE]
I've been looking back at my habits since I left my ex, and I think you are on to something...I have found a way to make sure come my next pay day, that I spend all my money. First, it was sending boxes to military personnel overseas (my son was deployed at the time and that included holiday boxes too). Then I bought lottery tickets (scratchers), I think I got started on those because I would buy here and there for fun but then I won $500 and kept buying more and more. Then when my roommate moved in and commented on it I thought oh gosh yeah I do buy a lot and stopped that...and started with makeup. Then day before yesterday I made a comment 'I wonder where all my other boxes are' and my roommate said WHAT OTHER BOXES??? I just went :blush: .@ I truly have an obsessive personality. If it is not one thing, it is another. Since I am trying to get rid of my obsession with buying makeup, I am replacing it with healthier obsessions - first, a makeup/skincare no buy, which is honestly easier for me than a low-buy. I am also focusing on reducing our over-all spending. It took me many years to realize it, but if I am going to get rid of one obsession, I have to have something else that is better for me to take its place or I will fail. This very well may only apply to me, but I thought I would share.
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