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Originally Posted by jakk-attakk /img/forum/go_quote.gif she must have something i dont...ive put up with a lot from him, he's cheated before he lies constantly, and he called me a b*tch, a slut, an idiot etc etc so its kind of weird that i put up with all of that and kept taking him back now HE has left ME when i really dont think i've done anything bad to him. in fact i loved him more than anything and would've done anything to make him happy. so i like to think its his loss lol
and you're all right, he WILL do it again. he'll cheat again, he'll lie again and he'll treat his girlfriend like sh*t again, only this time it wont be me.
It is his loss and I suffered from my ex's emotional abuse our entire relationship. I finally "got" that people only treat us how we allow them to treat us. I never have put myself in a situation like that again. I've been divorced from him for 21 years so I'm totally over it now but it took me a loonnnggg time. We...you and me.....let ourselves be doormats. In the end, it's not an attractive trait. Don't ever put up with that crap again. I PROMISE that there are men that will treat you with love and respect if you demand it from them. Take care and let us know how you are holding up, ok?
and you're all right, he WILL do it again. he'll cheat again, he'll lie again and he'll treat his girlfriend like sh*t again, only this time it wont be me.
It is his loss and I suffered from my ex's emotional abuse our entire relationship. I finally "got" that people only treat us how we allow them to treat us. I never have put myself in a situation like that again. I've been divorced from him for 21 years so I'm totally over it now but it took me a loonnnggg time. We...you and me.....let ourselves be doormats. In the end, it's not an attractive trait. Don't ever put up with that crap again. I PROMISE that there are men that will treat you with love and respect if you demand it from them. Take care and let us know how you are holding up, ok?