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Felt this thread needed to be 're-vamped'!
I can say that I wouldn't appreciate my SO keeping pictures, cards, etc... of his exes. I just find it hurtful and why is it necessary? I have thrown out things like pictures, cards, etc... because I don't NEED them. Plus, I don't think he'd appreciate it either. Makes me wonder why people keep them around. If so, why do you?
I have pics of my ex but I'm unusual
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[email protected] 2x" width="20" height="20" /> I'm a firm believer in not having to destroy your past just to placate your present/future. History is kind of important to me so even tho he was a scuzz bag, he was a part of my life, so I keep the pics. I keep everything, even notes my friends and I passed in school!
But sex tapes? I dunno . . . I'm not sure how I would feel about that. I think my reaction would depend on the reason it's being kept.
Are they being kept as possible future blackmail material?
Is it an ego thing? (my best friend and her ex made plenty of sex tapes . . . she kept them, not because she has feelings for her ex but because she looks fantastic in them
lmao)
Is it just because he hates to part with a part of his life's history, no matter how raunchy it is?
I would really have to be in that situation to truly know how I would feel . . .