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I think what is most disturbing about this is that it shows the lack of respect he has for you and your relationship. You've asked him to get rid of it and he hasn't. Instead, he's been carrying it around in his bag?!?! It's not even out of sight, how can it be out of mind? Past pics and notes from an ex is one thing, but keeping sexual materials from the past relationship is ridiculous. It so far crosses the line.
I do give him credit for one thing though... letting you look at it. That at least may indicate that he has nothing to hide from you.
His actions could not mean a damn thing; it may just be a possession to him. But, his actions could mean something, like he's still harboring feelings for her. I've seen it before and it's happened to me before. Well, it didn't involve any sexual material, just a box of mementos and pictures up on his mirror. After being slightly suspicious that he still had feelings for her, I found out he tried to arrange to meet her when he was going to be in LV with his dad. He told me not to come, the bastard, so he could see her instead. What a f*@ker. I should have dumped him then.
I do give him credit for one thing though... letting you look at it. That at least may indicate that he has nothing to hide from you.
His actions could not mean a damn thing; it may just be a possession to him. But, his actions could mean something, like he's still harboring feelings for her. I've seen it before and it's happened to me before. Well, it didn't involve any sexual material, just a box of mementos and pictures up on his mirror. After being slightly suspicious that he still had feelings for her, I found out he tried to arrange to meet her when he was going to be in LV with his dad. He told me not to come, the bastard, so he could see her instead. What a f*@ker. I should have dumped him then.