I'll put in my two cents ... I've been a participant on this board for many years, I introduced people to it, probably including Benebaby. (not sure if she showed me or I showed her because it's been like 4 years or so) I stopped participating in any contests or tutorials or anything else that requires user input and comments because I've had my fun and I just don't have time to do it anymore. I also find that a lot of the younger crowd (or just immature) don't appreciate people's talents and photographs, and they have to lash out and make a dirty comment just to put that person down, which isn't fair, but it's expected on an online community. I've had my life ruined in the past because of participation on an online community (nothing to do with makeup..lol) where I trusted people too much or got too close with the members and shared some private information that was posted public. You are always going to find weirdos, and mean-spirited people on the web, no matter what kind of website it is. If Amanda feels uncomfortable doing DTBs or doesn't like the comments, she has every right to retire from doing it. I personally feel that Amanda could use herself as an "example" face for the DTBs if she wanted, so she could still participate, but not be voted for.
I have considered retiring from this site altogether and have taken long absences because I've felt that my opinions and advice have been overshadowed by more of the popular posters, or my posts get moved every 5 seconds because it's not posted in a proper place, so I feel like I am just wasting time and energy being here. This place isn't what it used to be, and I do miss a particular few who were banned that I enjoyed seeing posts from. The only reason I am here is to see what Amanda is up to, she's my BFF and I stalk her on a daily basis only because I care. =)