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And I understand this, which is why I mentioned that if I had offended her, I am sorry, I was just trying to explain how someone might take that. It really wasn't so much the circus paint comment, but the "who would wear that?", which is essentially an implication that only someone lacking in taste would wear it, I understand it wasn't her intention to insult anyone just as I hope you understand it was never my intention to offend her. I was not the only one that took the comment the way I did though.
Of course she can speak her mind, but I was trying to say that, okay, maybe she doesn't like the palette. Saying that she doesn't like it and maybe even saying that it looks like clown makeup to her would have been more than okay and I'm sure there are some that agree with her. It was the "who would wear that?" that got under my skin because, frankly, I would wear that and I am wearing that and I like it.
That said, we can agree to disagree. That's the way of the world
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This is pretty much how I felt, too. "Who would wear that?" Uh, right over here. I *love* wearing orange and blue eyeshadow together (I'm a little bit bummed at how close it seems to be to the other five-pan palette we received over the summer, but that's a whole separate thing and not related to OMG CLOWN COLORS). When things are phrased like these sentiments were, it can feel like a personal attack because it was presented as if there is something wrong with liking it. I like it. If there's something wrong with liking it, then that means there's something wrong with me. That may not have been the intent, but that was the impact.
(For the record, if *I* refer to something as "clown makeup" or "circus paint," it's intended as an excited compliment. My eyeshadow collection could be described as "clown vomit": lots of color and even more sparkle. I try to avoid the term "hooker colors" because, well, those aren't the colors the hookers in *my* neighborhood wear, so it's just a factually wrong descriptor to me.)
(ETA: "Clown prostitute" is a completely different matter and is concerned almost entirely with blush. It is usually entirely due to application, like when I dust some on lightly in my bathroom and think I need a little more because I look washed out and then get to work and realize that it is *not* subdued in office lighting, not the color itself. Just in case anyone was wondering/confused.)