I have to say my taste coincides with nearly everyone else.
I do tend to like a larger man. Tall and in shape. I like muscles but I like men that have a natural large stature over those that are total meat heads and spend all of thier time in the gym and act like self important jerks. Don't get me wrong though...nothing wrong with a guy who works out and cares for his body,....just is not a total meat head about it and so physique obsessed to the point that he holds everyone to a standard or mold and it they don't measure up physically they get thrown out like yesterdays trash. In other words, he screens all of his friends in life based on if they "look good enough" first rather than the persons substance. You all know the type I'm talking about.
I love nice lips. Not big, and not small,... Well defined. I do not like facial hair. It can be attractive to look at if meticulously groomed but ewww that stuff feels awful rubbing against my face during a kiss and can instantly kill the mood!
I like a nice smile that is warm and sincere. Good personal hygeniene is non negotiable! Nothing worse than body odor or halitosis! Yes, all of our bodies can develop an odor from time to time, but a person that would willingly try to kiss you or make any kind of physical advance and they not be clean or know that they have an offensive smell is just unthinkable and goes beyond a physical problem. You have to question the mental state of a person that is comfortable with body odor/poor hygiene/uncleanliness. Scarey!
It is sexy when a man takes care of himself and does not feel demasculinzed by getting eyebrow waxes, manicures, pedicures or by using hair products, colognes, a facial moisturizer etc. This can be unsexy though if the guy is spending more time in the mirror than I do! This goes back to the "self important meat head" type.
Smart IS Sexy. I do not like it when a man uses profanity or slang excessively. I like a man that is intelligent and imaginative enough to express himself respectfully, even when he is angry. I find it sexy when a man really loves his mother, but isn't a slave of her...aka. "Momma's Boy." Humility is sexy. I cannot stand a man that is so insecure that he refuses to back away from any challenge for fear that a weakness may be exposed. A truely strong man secure in his manhood will not argue with a fool, and never feels his manhood is compromised by taking the high road and walking away from a fight. It is sexy when a man cries. It shows such strength.
Men that publicly defend thier wives/girlfriends. i.e. will not let people disrespect her, (including family) are so sexy. Men that do not participate in locker room talk or derogatory discussions about thier wives/girlfriends.
Wow I could go at this all day.
So far I have described my husband nearly to a Tee!
