Originally Posted by
Annia /img/forum/go_quote.gif My s/o doesn't look at other women nor do I look at other people.. I am not really attracted to looks. I guess I am weird. Then we are two weirdos here, because i am the same, my husband does look at other women tho, but you know, he not only looks at the pretty ones, he looks at the 'ugly' ones too and tells me, he is just a looker i guess, he did use to say stuff like "she's got a nice bum" and stuff like that, but one day i just got really tired of it and i told him that i didn't want to hear him saying stuff like that to me ever again, it's been quite a while and he doesn't do it anymore, i hope he doesn't do it ever again, i do think sometimes that it is disrespectful, but some other times i don't care. I on the other hand don't look at
ANYONE in front of him, i don't know, i think it is my high sense of respect and loyalty and i don't feel comfortable doing it, i respect him and love him too much to do that kind of stuff, it's like i want people to know that i don't do it because no matter how he looks he is everything i need and always wanted, and i am happy with what i have. I don't even find other people attractive to be honest, it is a very rare thing for me to find someone else (male) attractive enough for me to look at them, most men are/look just average to me. Also, i know that if he looks at someone else, he wont go and sleep with them, he (i know) loves me, and comes home to sleep with me, and it doesn't really affect me to think he stares/looks at pretty women cause i know what i have, and i know very well i am not an ugly person.
Plus, he knows very well no one else would give him what i do.
Originally Posted by
StrangerNMist /img/forum/go_quote.gif He really doesn't do much looking, but when he does look it's pretty quick. It doesn't bother me all that much. If it didn't, I wouldn't have dragged him all the way to the local Hooters. I remember the first time I took him there,(I like the restaurant, and I LLLOOOOVVVEEE their burgers!), and our waitress was quite the looker - and BOY did she know it! She made sure that she had her outfit on in such a way that people could literally SEE what she had, and needless to say both my husband and I were gawking! I took charge of the opportunity and used my camera phone! After the deed was done, I showed him the picture and he turned red and started laughing.
But anyway...
As far as I know, he always tells me how beautiful I am. I reply by telling him that he needs to get his eyes checked again (he wears glasses), and I remind him that I'm not exactly model material (Trust me, I'm WAAAAYYYYYYYY below average).
My husband is the same, he is always telling me how beautiful i am, even though sometimes i feel like an old mop, i have always tried to look good for him though, but even when i wake up in the morning and i think i look horrible he tells me i'm pretty, or even now with my extra weight, (cause im pregnant) so, i know he loves me, he says it to me all day all the time, one thing i love about him is that no matter where we are, if driving or sitting on the couch watching tv, or just lying in bed, he holds my hand all the time, i love that about him, i think it is the sweetest thing, my ex never did that, well, my ex never did a lot of things, but that is one of the many many things that make me love my husband so much, and not even care if he stares at other women at all.
Originally Posted by
carla_Hilton /img/forum/go_quote.gif Actually, its me normally who's like "damn, john, look at her, she's hott!" SO it really don't bother me, and i haven't had a problem with it.
You have to be to sure about yourself if you do that, mind you, i just looked at your profile picture and you have nothing to worry about, i think your bf is too busy looking at you all the time to have time to look at other women, you are really beautiful. By the way, i know you get this a lot probably, but i really like your hair too.
